China's adults are always worried about the child is too small to do sth over and
over again, not enough to eat, people than our Chinese children grow stronger?
Cultivate perseverance character
In the concept of many families in Germany, there is no failure, only temporarily
without success, so the German baby even a little age will know the truth. Have
seen a Chinese follow their parents to the 5 year old German boy, a running race in
a school, the children ran a sprained foot, the teacher used to comfort said
"although failure, but you have been brave" and so on, the German children
quickly corrected teacher: "I have not failed, but there is no success, hear others
feel really great German doll.
To encourage children to face challenges
German parents won't like Chinese as parents, feel the risk will help the child to
take care of. For example, 2 year old baby trying to climb a 2 meter high parapet,
they will tell the child, this task may be a bit difficult, but parents believe that
through your efforts, you will succeed, encourage children to face challenges
beyond the scope of. Sometimes see 1year old baby left alone to climb the steep
slope, even repeatedly rolled, mother just stand quietly beside. Perhaps it is this to
encourage children to face the challenges of the spirit, to cultivate so much courage
to break the normal procedure of Nobel prize winners.
In the face of difficult child
The children of the world are the same, the German children will be in the
supermarket to buy things. A German mother was told to buy a toy car removing
children: "if you have the ability to buy a car for removing yourself, you can buy,
if not, then you can only give up." Children feel that they do not have the ability,
do not quarrel with the mother did not trouble to follow her mother home.
From a small burden of responsibility
I deeply feel the heart is a German mother, a 3 year old German girl pushing a doll
out seriously to doll umbrella, sweat, baby. When a China girl asked if she could
take her doll to play for a while, she resolutely refused: "I want to take care of Tom
(doll), I was her mother, I can't let anyone hurt him......" The German girl's mother
said, give children to buy the doll is objective, is to let the children take